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Back to real life: Real connections instead of social media addiction

Back to real life: Real connections instead of social media addiction

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Self-control for healthy media use

Addiction to social media has an impact on everyday life and puts a strain on interpersonal relationships. A clear path is needed to find a way out of this addiction. The following section presents effective counselling strategies for overcoming social media addiction and improving relationships in real life.

Understanding the impact of social media in the real world

Prolonged use of social media has a significant impact on daily life and manifests itself in various disorders, such as

  • Withdrawal from meaningful personal encounters

  • Deterioration in mental health due to constant self-comparisons

  • Impaired productivity in daily activities

The impact on interpersonal relationships

Dependence on social media harbours the danger of neglecting real, personal relationships.

Techniques for self-regulation and reducing screen time

Effective self-regulation promotes healthy digital habits.

  • Definition of certain screen time limits

  • Self-awareness to resist the impulse to access social media

  • Digital detox phases to gradually reduce dependency

Strategies to promote real-life relationships and social skills

Strengthening personal dialogue requires targeted strategies to counteract the effects of social media addiction:

  • Building social skills to create constructive relationships

  • Personal activities to promote genuine relationships

  • Practising empathy and attentive listening in order to deepen understanding in social contacts

  • Participation in group activities or courses to improve social skills

Exercises to improve interpersonal communication

Practical exercises reinforce communication in practice:

  • Role-playing games for dealing with difficult conversations

  • Develop an awareness of body language and non-verbal signals for more effective interactions

  • Increasing offline interactions to boost self-confidence and improve social skills

For further insight into improving personal interactions, BetterHelp's resources may prove useful. Practical approaches to the implementation of counselling strategies

Applying counselling techniques to overcome social media dependency and strengthen offline interactions requires a personal commitment.

  • Set clear goals and priorities: Reflect on your social media habits, identify unhelpful behaviours and define actionable goals for healthier online engagement and a better connection to real life.

  • Establish healthy routines: Schedule offline time for physical or creative activities and create space for authentic relationships.

  • Utilise resources for support: Check out blogs, support groups and educational materials on social media addiction. Professional counselling can also provide personal guidance on how to deal effectively with addiction.

FAQ

  • How does social media addiction affect mental well-being? Social media addiction contributes to increased stress, anxiety, sleep disturbances and feelings of loneliness. It is important to recognise these emotional effects.

  • How can I recognise an addiction to social media? Key indicators include the urge to constantly access social media, neglecting responsibilities due to social media use and discomfort when trying to reduce use.

  • What role do counselling strategies play in overcoming social media addiction? Counselling offers tailored support, self-regulation tools and techniques to build a healthy online-offline balance.

  • How can I improve my social skills for dealing with people in everyday life? By consciously practising empathy and active listening and participating in group activities, you can foster genuine relationships and strengthen social skills.

  • When should I seek professional help for my social media addiction? If self-regulation becomes difficult, the use of social media disrupts daily life or the feeling of isolation increases, professional counselling or therapy may be advisable.

 

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