Romantic Relationships
Nebularomantic: The Meaning of the Micro-Label
Nebularomantic
9/18/26
Nebularomantic: The Meaning of the Micro-Label
Nebularomantic
9/18/26
Obsession: Meaning, Origin and the Difference from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
Obsession
9/17/26
Obsession: Meaning, Origin and the Difference from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
Obsession
9/17/26
Avoidant attachment style: Why the phrase ‘He’s an avoider’ puts an end to any further reflection
Avoidant attachment style
9/7/26
Avoidant attachment style: Why the phrase ‘He’s an avoider’ puts an end to any further reflection
Avoidant attachment style
9/7/26
Training emotional regulation: What a new study on reappraisal and attention reveals
Training emotional regulation
9/3/26
Training emotional regulation: What a new study on reappraisal and attention reveals
Training emotional regulation
9/3/26
Overcoming limerence with ADHD and autism: what really helps
Overcoming limerence with ADHD and autism
8/25/26
Overcoming limerence with ADHD and autism: what really helps
Overcoming limerence with ADHD and autism
8/25/26
Taylor Swift, Psychology and the Desire for a Famous Partner
Taylor Swift
8/14/26
Taylor Swift, Psychology and the Desire for a Famous Partner
Taylor Swift
8/14/26
Narcissistic Father: Signs, Long-Term Effects and a Way Out
Narcissistic Father
8/12/26
Narcissistic Father: Signs, Long-Term Effects and a Way Out
Narcissistic Father
8/12/26
The Psychology of the Manosphere: Why the Incel Is a Symptom
The Psychology of the Manosphere
8/4/26
The Psychology of the Manosphere: Why the Incel Is a Symptom
The Psychology of the Manosphere
8/4/26
No Time for Anything but Love
Love
7/21/26
No Time for Anything but Love
Love
7/21/26
Cheated and everything better after the affair? What the new study reveals about the psychology of flirting, infidelity and affairs
Cheated and everything better after the affair
7/6/26
Cheated and everything better after the affair? What the new study reveals about the psychology of flirting, infidelity and affairs
Cheated and everything better after the affair
7/6/26
Desire Discrepancy: the most common relationship problem for which there is hardly any therapy available
Desire Discrepancy
7/6/26
Desire Discrepancy: the most common relationship problem for which there is hardly any therapy available
Desire Discrepancy
7/6/26
Mosting: Love Bombing, Mosting, Ghosting: What’s Behind It
Mosting
7/2/26
Mosting: Love Bombing, Mosting, Ghosting: What’s Behind It
Mosting
7/2/26
Mankeeping: When your partner becomes your only confidante
Mankeeping
6/24/26
Mankeeping: When your partner becomes your only confidante
Mankeeping
6/24/26
An emotionally absent father? Attachment, relationship patterns and the danger of oversimplifications in popular psychology
An emotionally absent father
6/23/26
An emotionally absent father? Attachment, relationship patterns and the danger of oversimplifications in popular psychology
An emotionally absent father
6/23/26
Rousseau’s Émile: Freedom as a Technique of Domination
Rousseau’s Émile
6/20/26
Rousseau’s Émile: Freedom as a Technique of Domination
Rousseau’s Émile
6/20/26
Nonnamaxxing: The trend on TikTok and Instagram for a healthy Italian-style lifestyle – Grandma as an escape fantasy
Nonnamaxxing
6/11/26
Nonnamaxxing: The trend on TikTok and Instagram for a healthy Italian-style lifestyle – Grandma as an escape fantasy
Nonnamaxxing
6/11/26
Gen Z and dating apps: Dating recession and solo-maxxing instead of expensive dates
Gen Z and dating apps
6/9/26
Gen Z and dating apps: Dating recession and solo-maxxing instead of expensive dates
Gen Z and dating apps
6/9/26
Toxic terms in everyday life: therapy-speak & pop psychology relationships
Toxic terms in everyday life
6/6/26
Toxic terms in everyday life: therapy-speak & pop psychology relationships
Toxic terms in everyday life
6/6/26
Emotional incest and enmeshment: When parents turn children into partners
Emotional incest and enmeshment
5/29/26
Emotional incest and enmeshment: When parents turn children into partners
Emotional incest and enmeshment
5/29/26
Trauma, the nervous system and the Bambi reflex: Pete Walker’s Fawn Response in childhood trauma
Trauma, the nervous system and the Bambi reflex
5/19/26
Trauma, the nervous system and the Bambi reflex: Pete Walker’s Fawn Response in childhood trauma
Trauma, the nervous system and the Bambi reflex
5/19/26
AI-associated psychosis: When chatbots exacerbate delusions to the point of AI psychosis
AI-associated psychosis
5/15/26
AI-associated psychosis: When chatbots exacerbate delusions to the point of AI psychosis
AI-associated psychosis
5/15/26
The ELIZA Chatbot and Joseph Weizenbaum: Machines, Computers, Artificial Intelligence and Their Effect on Us
The ELIZA Chatbot and Joseph Weizenbaum
5/11/26
The ELIZA Chatbot and Joseph Weizenbaum: Machines, Computers, Artificial Intelligence and Their Effect on Us
The ELIZA Chatbot and Joseph Weizenbaum
5/11/26
No Contact: Why Gen Z is cutting ties with friends and parents
No Contact
5/8/26
No Contact: Why Gen Z is cutting ties with friends and parents
No Contact
5/8/26
The ideal ego, the ego-ideal, and the self
The ideal ego
5/7/26
The ideal ego, the ego-ideal, and the self
The ideal ego
5/7/26
The Psychology of Digital Media: When smartphones, digital communication and social media shape our minds, communication and relationships
The Psychology of Digital Media
5/5/26
The Psychology of Digital Media: When smartphones, digital communication and social media shape our minds, communication and relationships
The Psychology of Digital Media
5/5/26
Transgenerational Trauma: Inheriting Trauma from Previous Generations?
Transgenerational Trauma
5/1/26
Transgenerational Trauma: Inheriting Trauma from Previous Generations?
Transgenerational Trauma
5/1/26
Scrotox: Botox for the testicles, the beauty trend for the intimate area
Scrotox
4/30/26
Scrotox: Botox for the testicles, the beauty trend for the intimate area
Scrotox
4/30/26
AuDHD books now available: Volumes 1 & 2 now on Amazon
AuDHD books now available
4/29/26
AuDHD books now available: Volumes 1 & 2 now on Amazon
AuDHD books now available
4/29/26
Solitude or loneliness?
Solitude
4/20/26
Solitude or loneliness?
Solitude
4/20/26
Tolyamory: The dating trend where infidelity in a relationship is tacitly tolerated
Tolyamory
4/15/26
Tolyamory: The dating trend where infidelity in a relationship is tacitly tolerated
Tolyamory
4/15/26
Burnout in ADHD and autism: Are digital media a refuge or a risk of addiction?
Burnout in ADHD and autism
4/13/26
Burnout in ADHD and autism: Are digital media a refuge or a risk of addiction?
Burnout in ADHD and autism
4/13/26
Emotional entanglements and co-dependence
entanglements
4/8/26
Emotional entanglements and co-dependence
entanglements
4/8/26
Collien Fernandes speaks: The outrage surrounding allegations against her ex-husband through the lens of psychoanalysis
Collien Fernandes
4/9/26
Collien Fernandes speaks: The outrage surrounding allegations against her ex-husband through the lens of psychoanalysis
Collien Fernandes
4/9/26
Autism and ADHD: Overload, meltdown, shutdown, panic attack – what’s what with AUDHS?
Autism and ADHD
4/6/26
Autism and ADHD: Overload, meltdown, shutdown, panic attack – what’s what with AUDHS?
Autism and ADHD
4/6/26
Brain activity reveals: How people adapt their thinking to others
Brain activity reveals
4/7/26
Brain activity reveals: How people adapt their thinking to others
Brain activity reveals
4/7/26
Jacques Lacan, Psychoanalysis and the Subject: Suicide and the Fundamental Ethics of Psychoanalysis
Jacques Lacan, Psychoanalysis and the Subject
4/1/26
Jacques Lacan, Psychoanalysis and the Subject: Suicide and the Fundamental Ethics of Psychoanalysis
Jacques Lacan, Psychoanalysis and the Subject
4/1/26
To lie or not to lie? Brutal honesty isn’t always best.
To lie or not to lie?
4/2/26
To lie or not to lie? Brutal honesty isn’t always best.
To lie or not to lie?
4/2/26
Slowing down: Is ‘dusking’ the art of slowing down in a mindful life, or is it simply slowness as yet another trend towards greater well-being?
Slowing down
3/30/26
Slowing down: Is ‘dusking’ the art of slowing down in a mindful life, or is it simply slowness as yet another trend towards greater well-being?
Slowing down
3/30/26
Losing track of time whilst marvelling? The psychology of wonder
The psychology of wonder
3/19/26
Losing track of time whilst marvelling? The psychology of wonder
The psychology of wonder
3/19/26
Emotion and cultural influence
Emotion and cultural influence
3/18/26
Emotion and cultural influence
Emotion and cultural influence
3/18/26
Sexual fantasies: What do your sexual daydreams mean? Are erotic fantasies normal?
Sexual fantasies
3/11/26
Sexual fantasies: What do your sexual daydreams mean? Are erotic fantasies normal?
Sexual fantasies
3/11/26
Autism and the double empathy problem: Autistic people are not mind-blind or unempathetic
Autism and the double empathy problem
3/12/26
Autism and the double empathy problem: Autistic people are not mind-blind or unempathetic
Autism and the double empathy problem
3/12/26
The Princess and the Pea: a fairy tale for children and adults by Hans Christian Andersen
The Princess and the Pea
2/25/26
The Princess and the Pea: a fairy tale for children and adults by Hans Christian Andersen
The Princess and the Pea
2/25/26
Sexual obsessive thoughts: the obsessive-compulsive disorder that nobody talks about
Sexual obsessive thoughts
2/19/26
Sexual obsessive thoughts: the obsessive-compulsive disorder that nobody talks about
Sexual obsessive thoughts
2/19/26
Otrovert: The new personality type between introversion and extroversion? Or just a sham?
Otrovert
2/12/26
Otrovert: The new personality type between introversion and extroversion? Or just a sham?
Otrovert
2/12/26
Let-Them theory: two words that will change your life... Wait a minute
Let-Them theory
2/10/26
Let-Them theory: two words that will change your life... Wait a minute
Let-Them theory
2/10/26
ADHD in women: Understanding ADHD and autism, burnout
ADHD in women
2/9/26
ADHD in women: Understanding ADHD and autism, burnout
ADHD in women
2/9/26
Overcoming trauma: A fresh start even without forgiveness, reconciliation or pardon
Overcoming trauma
2/1/26
Overcoming trauma: A fresh start even without forgiveness, reconciliation or pardon
Overcoming trauma
2/1/26
Conflict and suppressed anger: causes and psychology of inner tensions and conflicts in couple relationships
Conflict and suppressed anger
2/5/26
Conflict and suppressed anger: causes and psychology of inner tensions and conflicts in couple relationships
Conflict and suppressed anger
2/5/26
AUDHD & Spoon Theory: More energy in everyday life with ADHD and autism
AUDHD & Spoon Theory
2/2/26
AUDHD & Spoon Theory: More energy in everyday life with ADHD and autism
AUDHD & Spoon Theory
2/2/26
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